My brother-in-law is still being very aggressive that I need to gift my inheritance to my sisters and not share my inheritance with my adult children. Neither my sisters nor I agree with this. We, including my husband, are all disgusted by this aggressive repeated request from my brother-in-law.

From the start, my older sister’s husband protested that we should not split the estate equally. He says we should have split it to “level the retirement playing field.” In other words, I should have declined my inheritance to give my sisters a retirement financially equivalent to what my husband and I have.