Giving genuine thanks for an unexpected gift shows the giver that you truly recognize and appreciate their thoughtful gesture ...

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband believes that when we receive a single, indivisible gift intended for us as a couple (such as a platter, restaurant gift card or other anniversary gift) or a shared ...

My husband believes that when we receive a single, indivisible gift intended for us as a couple (such as a platter, ...

would prefer that we send a single message, using “we” in the note with one person writing and each individual signing.